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We all have those aspects of ourselves that we hide from the world, doing whatever it takes to ensure others don’t see them. These insecurities often drive us to seek attention and validation in ways that may not be healthy for ourselves or others. But what if, instead of suppressing these insecurities, we learned to embrace them?

It might sound crazy, but when we wholeheartedly embrace our insecurities from the inside out, they can transform into some of the most potent superpowers on the planet. Tokyo 2020 Paralympic Gold Medalist, World Champion, Disability Inclusion Activist, and TEDx Speaker, Ryan Neiswender, knows this truth firsthand.

Through his inspiring journey, Ryan shows us how to conquer our greatest fears and insecurities, enabling us to lead purposefully and leave a lasting legacy. Drawing from his experiences as a wheelchair basketball player on Team USA and as a business leader with a disability in a Fortune 500 company, Ryan shares personal and professional stories of triumph and defeat, encouraging audiences to tap into their untapped potential.

Instead of running away from our insecurities, Ryan challenges us to embrace them, acknowledging that they are an essential part of who we are. By embracing them, we can unlock a wellspring of strength and authenticity that empowers us to influence others positively.

Ryan Neiswender’s powerful message, shared during his inspiring TEDx talk titled “Loving What You Hate,” revolves around the profound idea that our vulnerabilities can evolve into our most potent sources of influence and impact. When we no longer see our insecurities as weaknesses but as unique qualities that make us who we are, we can channel their energy into a force for positive change.

Through his own example, Ryan Neiswender exemplifies how embracing our insecurities can lead to personal growth and genuine connections with others. He shares invaluable insights on how we can transform adversity into opportunity, and challenges us to break free from self-imposed limitations.

In a world that often demands perfection, Ryan’s perspective offers a refreshing take on embracing imperfections as stepping stones to success. He shows us that true strength lies not in hiding who we are but in embracing our whole selves, including the parts we may have previously regarded as weaknesses.

By following Ryan’s lead, we can discover newfound courage and authenticity within ourselves. Through this transformation, we gain the power to inspire others, fostering a culture of inclusion and empathy. Ultimately, we learn that our vulnerabilities, when embraced, become a catalyst for personal and collective growth.

So, let us learn from Ryan Neiswender’s incredible journey and begin embracing our insecurities. By doing so, we can harness the full potential of our unique selves, leaving a profound impact on the world around us and creating a legacy that resonates far beyond our lifetime.

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Welcome to Season 3 of Inside Out Leadership with Robb Holman

Robb Holman is on a mission to interview the world’s greatest Inside Out Leaders in 2023.

These transformational leaders are leaving an extraordinary mark within their sphere of influence resulting in transformational change. They have faithfully demonstrated inspiration, humility, courage, perseverance, and servant leadership!

SEASON 3 FOCUS: “Leaving A Legacy”

Your legacy depends on the presence you bring to your relationships. This is about having influence that matters. If you desire to leave a lasting imprint on your organization, learn the discipline, the beauty, and the power of being present with the one team member that’s before you. The interviews will be recorded and then featured on Robb Holman’s Inside Out Leadership Podcast.

In the seventh episode of season 3, I talk with Tokyo 2020 Paralympic Gold Medalist, World Champion, and Disability Inclusion Activist, Ryan Neiswender, about his inspiring TEDx talk titled “Loving What You Hate,” which revolves around the profound idea that our vulnerabilities can evolve into our most potent sources of influence and impact.


About Robb Holman

Robb Holman is a sought after global  Keynote Speaker, CEO of global leadership consultancy, Holman International, and 3x Author of leadership books, Lead the Way, All In, and Move the Needle. In 2022 and 2023 Robb was named one of the World’s Top 30 Leadership Speakers & Thought Leaders through Global Gurus.  In 2023 he was inducted into the Power List of the Top 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership, and his Inside Out Leadership philosophy has been featured in publications like Inc, Forbes, and Fast Company. You can visit Robb by going here.

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